转世也是过家家

此段摘自《灵魂永生》第十二章“转世的人际关系”

“等这一生结束后，我会回顾我的经历，到时再修正我的道路”，说这种话是没用的。这就像一个年轻人说：“等我老了、退休了，就去使用所有我现在没培养的能力。”你现在就在为你的“来生”布置舞台。你今日所思所想，不管怎么样总会成为编织来世的材料。没有什么咒语可以让你变聪明，或者让你充满理解和慈悲，或者扩展你的意识。

你的思想和日常经验蕴含着答案。此生取得的任何成功、任何能力都是从过往经验中努力获得的，它们理当属于你。你曾努力发展它们。看看你身边的亲人、朋友、熟人和生意伙伴，从中你也可以看出自己是个怎样的人，因为他们吸引你也像你吸引他们一样，你们基于内在根本的相似性而彼此吸引。

如果你在一天的不同时间花五分钟检查一下自己的思想，一个月做上几次，你肯定会收到迄今为止你为自己安排的来世生活的正确印象。如果你对自己发现的结果不满意，那最好开始改变自己思想和情感的性质。

你能做得到，正如你将在本书后面读到的那样。没有规定说在每一生中你必须再遇见以前认识的人。但由于同类相吸的天性，这种情况经常发生。

你生在现在这个家庭也许有很多理由。但死后，你也许发现自己与过去某一生的某个人有更牢固的情感关系。比如说，如果你已经结婚，但与配偶却不那么亲密，也许你反而会发现一个前世的妻子或丈夫在等着你。

各种团体——军事团体、教会团体、狩猎团体的成员经常会在另一生中建立亲属关系，然后以新的方式解决他们旧的问题。家庭必须被视为心灵活动的完形；家庭本身有一个主观的本体身份，不过，在这个团体中却没有哪个成员对这点有所察觉。

家庭都具有潜意识目标，尽管家庭中的个体成员是在不知不觉中追求这些目标的。这种团体是提前设立的，也就是说在转世之间设立的。往往是四五个人为他们自己设定一项挑战，给每个成员分配不同的角色去扮演。然后这些角色会在人间生活中完成。

内我对家庭完形背后隐藏的机制总是知觉的。那些会被情感紧紧绑在一起的人，常常喜欢在许多生中维持或紧或松的实质关系。不过，新的关系总是受到鼓励的，因为你可以拥有向内发展的转世“家庭”。很多这种“家庭”形成了实质的组织，而这些组织实际上是内在团体的外在显现。

It is useless then to say, "When this life is over I will look back upon my experience and mend my ways." This is like a young man saying, "When I grow old and retire, I will use all those abilities that I am not now developing." You are setting the stage for your "next" life now. The thoughts you think today will in one way or another become the fabric of your next existence. There are no magic words that will make you wise, that will fill you with understanding and compassion, that will expand your consciousness.

Your thoughts and everyday experience contain the answers. Any successes in this life, any abilities, have been worked out through past experience. They are yours by right. You worked to develop them. If you look about you at your relatives, friends, acquaintances, and business associates, you will also see what kind of a person you are, for you are drawn to them as they are drawn to you, through very basic inner similarities.

If you examine your thoughts for five minutes at various times during the day for several times a month, you will indeed receive a correct impression of the kind of life you have so far arranged for yourself in the next existence. If you are not pleased with what you discover, then you had better begin changing the nature of your thoughts and feelings.

As you will see later in this book, you can do so. There is no rule saying that in each life you must meet again those whom you have known before; and yet through the nature of attraction, that is often the case.

You may be born into your present family for many reasons. You may find after death a much stronger relationship emotionally with a personality from a past life. If you are married, for example, and have no true rapport with your mate, you may instead find a past wife or husband waiting for you.

Oftentimes members of various groups - military groups, church groups, hunting groups, will in another life form family relationships in which they will then work out old problems in new ways. Families must be considered as gestalts of psychic activity; they have a subjective identity, of which no particular member of the group may be aware.

Families have subconscious purposes, though the individual members of the family may pursue these goals without conscious awareness. Such groups are set up ahead of time, so to speak, in between physical existences. Oftentimes four or five individuals will set themselves a given challenge, and assign to the various members different parts to play. Then in a physical existence the roles will be worked out.

The inner self is always aware of the hidden mechanisms of these family gestalts. Those who have been closely bound through emotional ties often prefer to remain in closely tied or loosely tied physical relationships that continue through many lifetimes. New relationships are always encouraged however, for you can have ingrown reincarnational "families." Many of these form physical organizations that are actually manifestations of inner groupings.

——摘自《灵魂永生》（Seth Speaks: The Eternal Validity of the Soul）

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